Saying something meaningless is good
2025-05-13
Note: My English isn’t very strong, so I used chatgpt to revise my writing. Here is the revised version:
I used to think that saying something meaningless was a waste of time. So I wouldn’t speak unless I believed what I had to say actually mattered.
But that made social situations really difficult. People often thought I was upset or had a problem with them, just because I stayed quiet or didn’t smile.
This mindset affected other parts of my life too. I didn’t want to do a job that felt meaningless. I didn’t want to go to places that didn’t inspire me or read books that didn’t teach me something useful. I always picked books with a goal in mind—like solving a specific problem.
Over time, I started feeling more and more unhappy. I overthought everything I said or did. I spend the whole day in doubt, constantly questioning myself: ‘Did I say the wrong thing? Did I do the wrong thing?’
Maybe it all stems from a lack of self-confidence. But I’ve decided I want to change that. I want to be more sincere and honest. I don’t want to think about what I can get from others—I want to focus on how I can help them instead, with kindness instead of suspicion or resentment.
Everyone makes mistakes. Almost anything can be fixed, as long as it doesn’t break the law. So go for it—take the risk. Try something big. Do something great.
Note: The unrevised version:
I thought about taking something meaningless is a waste of time. So I didn’t say anything unless I thought this sentence had some meaning.
This made trrible when I talked to others. Maybe they would think I had a problem with them, or why I didn’t say anything and pulled a long face.
This just like many things in my life. I don’t want to do a meaningless job. I don’t want to go to a meaningless place. I don’t want to read a meaningless book. I always read books with a purpose, like this book can help me sovle one problem.
I become more and more unhappy. I would think twice when telling a word or doing something. This makes scepticism around me. I start to suspect myself. “Did I say something wrong?”
I don’t know if my lack of self-confidence lead to this. But I decide to change this. I should to become more sincerity and honesty. I shouldn’t have ideas which getting benefits from others. I should give people more help and love instead of hatred and hostility.
Everyone makes mistakes. No falses couldn’t been fixed other than something which break the law. Go to try, do somthing great.